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Sunday, June 03, 2007

Today is our 6th year wedding anniversary...

My oh my how things change in such a short amount of time. 6 years ago today right now, I'm pretty sure I was hearing my brother and a few friends of mine give their speeches right before we were all about to eat the dinner that Nicki's dad paid for. I think at 23 years old I was a little too young to comprehend everything that was going on though. Although I did wake up that day balling my eyes out for no apparent reason, calling my dad just so I could run the wedding by one last person before I actually walked down the aisle. What an emotional day. It felt like it flew by in 20 minutes.

Fast forward 6 years later, I'm sitting here on the couch, about 10 pounds heavier than I was when we got married. (Which isn't that bad by the way. Most people gain 4 to 5 pounds every year. At least I'm trying to eat right and workout.) I'm using Nicki's laptop to blog on my website, our beautiful daughter is asleep in her crib because we took her to the Oakland Zoo today, and Nicki is watching a movie whilst being pregnant. We have two dogs, a cat, a blessing of a home, one really nice car, one really shitty car, and 6 years worth of ups and downs.

If there is one thing I've learned about marriage in the last 6 years (and being with Nicki the last 8 year in whole) is that you HAVE TO have communication. OPEN communication. It does no good to bottle things up or hold grudges or not discuss important issues. And in fact, I believe that's probably the number one marriage killer. Lack of communication. So if you've learned nothing else from my ramblings on my website, learn this: Communicate with your spouse. Be open with each other, and love them unconditionally.

posted by Ricky @ 5:34 PM  
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